Your Family is your first church. Any man who is successful in his business but he is not successful in his family, that man is a failure. Any man who is a rich man but his family is not organised, his family is not united, his family is not in love with each other, that man is a failure.

Any man who loves his children must also love their mother. You can give your children anything money can buy but you cant give them success. Only God can give success. God did not punish Eli because of his sin, God punished him because of the sin of his children. Take care of your family.

You don’t have to boil like a kettle of water on fire, just because your spouse expresses a different opinion. Sometimes you get angry, lose your temper and allow unseemly words pass your lips just because your spouse advises that the action you are about to take is contrary to the Scripture. Watch it! Don’t add water to your sinking boat!

You do not solve family problems by strife but by the help of the Holy Spirit. Not speaking to one another increases tension in the home. You need a nature when you want victory over anger; one which lives for Jesus Christ and is controlled by the Holy Spirit. When Jesus possesses your home, He also possesses your tempers and keeps you from sinful anger.
Marriage is a not a Psychiatric institution. Don’t go into marriage to fix your spouse. What your spouse needs is understanding and prayers to be the best they can ever be.
When you are in partnership with God, the scripture says, he that walketh with the wise shall be wise. You begin to walk on the frequency of heaven’s wisdom. You can’t be walking in God’s wisdom and be having crises at home! Psalm 104:24. Partner with God and be crises free
WIVES: Do you submit to your husband in the home? If not, how do you prove your love to him? If abusive words proceed from your mouth, how do you expect him to believe when that same mouth says, “I love you?”
Finally, to fulfil God’s purpose for your marriage the first step is to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour. Number two: To be a keeper and a solution provider requires the grace of God and to access that grace, you must be born again. If you want to be born again you need to say this prayer:

“Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today as a sinner. Forgive me of my Sins. I believe You died and rose on the third day for my sins. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”