Sisters, you can destroy your family peace and your tomorrow if you hold on the past and keeping your memory fresh on what your sister-in-law did to you many years ago, or what your mother-in-law said against you. Unforgiveness does nothing other than taking you back to your past, opens the door to the tormentors and destroying your tomorrow. It is time to move on.
God is a marriage expert. He ordained and instituted the family unit and knows how best to make it work. And when you follow his instructions, your home and family will become a place to relax. Pressure can’t find its way in, stress is non-existent and tension can’t survive there. May You experience this Peace.
Spouse, if you are going through marital problems with your partner, the Bible says “husbands love your wives…” “Wives submit to your husband” Loving your wife is the antidote for the husband and spouse submitting to the husband can disarmed the tension at home; but many hear this Word and then cry out, “She will never change.” ”He will never change” That’s unbelief and God’s Word is not being mixed with faith, so it won’t work for them. Follow the word. Your home will not scatter in Jesus name
Singles, scarcity adds value to the price of every good thing. Stay away from premarital sex. Don’t destroy your marital foundation by sleeping with the person you want to marry. You will find it difficult to trust him or her when you eventually get married.
Beware of negative voices. At times, he comes through the bad company of friends, relatives, town folks etc. A mother-in-law or uncle may have the habit of making negative suggestions to one of the couple, which when adhered to causes God’s Word to be discarded in favour of traditional techniques for running the family. God’s Word is the final solution and the only technique for lasting family success. God wants you to change those negative thoughts concerning your family life. For those going through marital problems, your husband is not a write-off and your wife is not a devil.
Finally, to fulfil God’s purpose for your marriage the first step is to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour. Number two: To be a keeper and a solution provider requires the grace of God and to access that grace, you must be born again. If you want to be born again you need to say this prayer:
“Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today as a sinner. Forgive me of my Sins. I believe You died and rose on the third day for my sins. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”